Shortly after moving to Brenham, Texas in March 2008, my wife and I met with a local insurance agent. One wall of his office was filled with an enormous chart of the Dow Jones Industrial Average for the years 1900 to 2000. Several times during our meeting the agent tried to entice us to invest by pointing to the chart and saying "You see, your income will always continue to increase. Now is the time to buy." We could see the flaws in his logic at the time, and we didn't have the resources to invest anyway, so we politely declined his offer.
Little did we know that several months later - just days after we both quit our jobs in Brenham - the U.S. economy would collapse. Millions of people saw their investment portfolios shrivel, their homes get repossessed, and the bright future they had been assured slowly fade away. I closed my Texa$aver 457 retirement account in December 2008 for just $61.
Today, the soundtrack for my daily commute is filled with economists and government officials on NPR discussing bubbles and bailouts and projections and forecasts. Like the rest of us, they are thoroughly rattled by the recession and are clamoring to find meaning amongst the mountains of economic data. Each week a new indicator is identified as the best predictor of economic health - unemployment, job creation, foreclosures, new home construction, commodities, oil prices, underwear sales. (Yes, last week I actually heard an "expert" claim that underwear sales are the preeminent marker of economic growth. Perhaps sales are up simply because everyone crapped themselves at the thought of a $61 retirement nest egg.)
If anything is clear about our economy, it's this: We must stop expecting the economy to return to pre-2008 "normal" levels and begin accepting that our present situation is actually the "new normal." It's both myopic and ignorant of us to believe that our 2008 economic numbers were truly healthy. We'd be lying to ourselves, which is exactly what we did then that got us into this situation in the first place. Instead, I believe that the quicker we begin to accept the "new normal" the quicker the economy will actually begin to recover.
Why? Because we're not very skilled at handling change. Change makes us feel unsafe, and we respond by clinging to the memory and values of a time when we felt more secure. There's nothing inherently wrong with that process - its more or less ingrained in our DNA. The problem arises when we permit our anxiety about the change to stifle our growth. We see the same process occur in another area of life in which we notoriously fear change - interpersonal relationships. I've worked with couples whose marriages suffered tremendous trauma, such as infidelity or the loss of a child. Such an event can certainly have a devastating effect on a marriage, and yet we are surrounded by examples of marriages that successfully cope with the trauma and their lives return to feeling "normal."
I think our relationship with money needs to follow the same path. We need to make changes and be more honest with our observations of what is going on. The "new normal" economy is more volatile, so we need to be more cautious. Growth will be slower, but at a pace that can be sustained. All hope is not lost; the world is not ending. This is just the new normal - we need to accept it and move forward with our lives.